Messages to Get Your Ex Back: These are some of the most powerful messages to send to get your ex back, provided you use them correctly or else lose the ex forever. Through the process of being torn apart by the end of an unhealthy relationship, you may feel hopeless that you will ever get your ex back and be happy again with them. The good news is that it’s not impossible to get your ex back if you are willing to take the right actions and send the right messages to them.